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The Trauma Healer

Written by Jess Spooner, JD, MSW, LSW

Insights, education, and tools for trauma healing, nervous system regulation, attachment recovery, and post-traumatic growth. New articles published regularly.

The Trauma Healer blog by Jess Spooner
Understanding the Nervous System: Freeze, Fight, Flight, and Fawn
Nervous System 8 min read

Understanding the Nervous System: Freeze, Fight, Flight, and Fawn

Trauma dysregulates the nervous system, putting us into survival mode. Learn about the four trauma responses and how to recognize which one you default to.

January 15, 2026 Read More →
Attachment Wounds and How They Shape Relationships
Attachment & Relationships 10 min read

Attachment Wounds and How They Shape Relationships

Our early attachment experiences create templates for how we relate. Explore how attachment wounds develop and what secure attachment looks like.

January 12, 2026 Read More →
The Difference Between Healing and Coping
Healing & Growth 7 min read

The Difference Between Healing and Coping

Coping helps us survive. Healing helps us thrive. Learn the distinction and why true healing requires going deeper than symptom management.

January 8, 2026 Read More →
Shame, Guilt, and Self-Compassion After Trauma
Emotional Regulation 9 min read

Shame, Guilt, and Self-Compassion After Trauma

Trauma often leaves shame in its wake. Discover how to distinguish shame from guilt and develop self-compassion in the face of what happened.

January 5, 2026 Read More →
Grounding Techniques for Anxiety and Flashbacks
Tools & Practices 6 min read

Grounding Techniques for Anxiety and Flashbacks

When trauma memories surface, grounding techniques help bring you back to the present moment. Learn five evidence-based practices for instant regulation.

December 29, 2025 Read More →
Post-Traumatic Growth: Transformation Through Adversity
Healing & Growth 11 min read

Post-Traumatic Growth: Transformation Through Adversity

Many people who heal from trauma discover unexpected growth—deeper resilience, meaning, and spiritual awakening. Explore what this looks like.

December 22, 2025 Read More →
Boundaries as an Act of Self-Love
Attachment & Relationships 8 min read

Boundaries as an Act of Self-Love

Trauma survivors often struggle with boundaries. Learn why healthy boundaries are essential to healing and how to set them compassionately.

December 15, 2025 Read More →
Breaking Generational Trauma Patterns
Family & Parenting 12 min read

Breaking Generational Trauma Patterns

Generational trauma is real—and it can be interrupted. Explore how conscious parenting and personal healing break cycles of family trauma.

December 8, 2025 Read More →
Grief as Love: Honoring Loss and Moving Forward
Grief & Loss 9 min read

Grief as Love: Honoring Loss and Moving Forward

Grief is not weakness or something to "get over." It's a profound expression of love. Learn how to honor loss while gradually rebuilding.

December 1, 2025 Read More →
Spiritual Integration: Finding Meaning After Trauma
Spirituality 10 min read

Spiritual Integration: Finding Meaning After Trauma

Trauma often sparks spiritual questions. Explore how to integrate spiritual understanding into your healing and discover meaning in your experience.

November 24, 2025 Read More →
Self-Regulation Skills for Emotional Resilience
Emotional Regulation 11 min read

Self-Regulation Skills for Emotional Resilience

Emotional regulation isn't about eliminating emotions—it's about having choices. Discover tools to feel your emotions while staying grounded.

November 17, 2025 Read More →
Somatic Therapy: Healing Trauma Stored in the Body
Nervous System 12 min read

Somatic Therapy: Healing Trauma Stored in the Body

Trauma lives in the body. Somatic approaches address the physical dimensions of trauma and support nervous system healing from the ground up.

November 10, 2025 Read More →

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